I walked down the aisle 40 years ago today at my smallest adult weight of 145 pounds. Little did I know at the time I’d be 99 pounds more than that 39 years later! My height always gave me an advantage in carrying any weight well. As well as stretching it out over my tall frame, I became quite skilled in covering it up! Before children arrived, I had a very flat stomach! I think that was in part due to the fact I played clarinet in the school bands from grade 5 through college. It never occurred to me that the breath control required to play the clarinet probably kept my abs toned! I need to get that clarinet out again. What a fun way to work on those abs from the inside out and get a great respiratory workout too!
Over the 40 years of marriage my husband has always been very supportive of my size. He’s always seen me as beautiful. When ever I’ve tried to lose weight he’s always encourage and commended my efforts. When I’ve put on pounds, he’s never aid anything negative.
On my present journey he’s encouraged and supported me every step of the way. When I told him all I wanted for gifts—i.e. birthday, Christmas, etc. is Bootcamp money he loved it. That made it very easy for him. He’s really tried to notice my improvements. He never seems to tires of my detailed boot camp work out accountings and is happy along with me when I can do a little more. He understands when I’m out doing interval in the carport jumping rope or doing some of the other routines in the various weight loss challenges. He helps me celebrate my victories. He understands when I need a nap because I got to bed too late, but still got up for my 5:45 am boot camp. He supports my efforts that are pretty demanding in my time and attention to get fit and healthy and to lose this weight. He figures out how to enjoy eating with the “crazy” cooking I’m doing. I am blessed!
It is a joy to celebrate 40 years of marriage with the absolutely perfect man for me. A marriage some said in the 70’s had little statistical chance of survival because of our differences in culture, race, upbringing, and nationalities. But we proved them wrong!!! The major factor none of the people with their statistics counted on or considered was the fact we were not the only ones trying to make this marriage work. Our lives and our marriage were and are centered around our relationship with Jesus Christ. Who we are in Him transcends the human barriers of race, nationality, upbringing, and culture. Divorce from day one was never an alternative. It was not a part of our vocabulary. No matter what may come, through God we would make it work and it has! Have we always done it right? Of course not! Have we blown it here and there? Definitely! But God _______________!!!
Yes, God is able to do abundantly, more than we can ask or even imagine! And He has done that for us.
Thank you for taking this time to celebrate a bit of these 40 years with this baby boomer grandma gettin' fit & healthy! Until next time--may God richly bless YOU.